I can honestly say I have absolutely NO preference as to whether we're having a boy or girl. This seems to be a popular question that I keep receiving from people. Every time they find out I'm pregnant or can obviously see that I'm pregnant, they inevitably as these questions:
1) Do you know if it's a boy or girl (answer: no, not yet...to early to tell)
2) Which one are you hoping for?
Really? Which one am I hoping for? I'm hoping for healthy. The rest is gravy. A healthy boy, a healthy girl...I'll take both or one. I honestly have no desire to have one more than that other. Maybe this makes me weird. Maybe this makes me an anomaly of baby-mammas to be.
I just don't care.
I care about a lot of things. I care about this baby. I care about the health of this baby, but its gender? Don't care.
Which brings me to one observation...for the mothers that do care and openly discuss how they prefer one over the other - I just keep thinking, that poor little bumble - if it only knew that part of you wished it was someone else - what a horrible feeling it would have.
10 fingers, 10 toes, a healthy heart, organs in all the right places. A active mind and soul.
A boy or girl is the farthest thing from my mind. I already love this little squirt, and it's gender won't change it.
That being said, I can't wait to find out! In a month we should know if we're expecting a son or daughter and I can't wait!
I'll post a new baby bump shot soon! We just took some, but I look super f-ugly in it...so I'll need the husband to take some new ones!
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